Did you ever try strap-on dildos? No? Well, they could help spice up your sex life. They are really fun, especially when used in conjunction with realistic dildos. To that end, let’s examine how to get the most out of a strap-on dildo on your next sensual night with your partner.
Why a Strap-On Might Be Right for the Two of You
It’s easier than you think for a strap-on to become an integral (and unique) part of your partnered sex life. How? Let’s find out.
- First things first: when you wear a strap-on, your hands are free to hold your partner, rather than holding a vibrator or dildo for them.
- You can use the strap-on dildo to penetrate the vagina and anal openings for double penetration.
- Strap-on dildos are useful for men with erectile dysfunction to engage in penetrative sex with their partners.
- A strap-on allows partners to explore gender fluidity.
Why Do Many Couples Enjoy Using Strap-Ons?
Simply because it’s fun and playful! Many couples like to try out new things in the bedroom to keep their love life alive, and using normal vibrators can get a little boring. But when a couple starts using a strap-on, they can role-play, which can be supremely exciting. Also, experiencing something new in the bedroom can be a fun little secret.
How to Choose the Right Strap-On Dildo and Harness
When it comes to buying a strap-on, there are certain things you need to consider:
- Adjustment: First, see if the harness is one size fits all or adjustable. If the latter, it should fit snugly against your body’s curves. If it’s faux leather or a leather strap-on harness, you will more likely be able to adjust the fit with the buckles.
- Accommodation: Secondly, can you use only one or multiple kinds of dildos in the harness? Some strap-on harnesses are specifically designed to fit only one particular size of dildo. So, make sure that you buy a harness that can accommodate different shapes and sizes.
Where Do You Start?
For male partners, a strap-on can be something new and exhilarating in the sexual act. For females, wearing a strap-on might feel a little awkward in the beginning as thrusting may be a new act. So, it is recommended that women wear the strap-on even during foreplay to get used to its presence. Also, clear communication between partners is necessary to use it and find pleasure in it. If you are both comfortable, every use will be fun.
By keeping these points in mind, you’ll be able to find the best strap-on dildo and harness for yourself and your partner. Be sure to purchase them from a good sex toy vendor so you can be assured of their quality. Then prepare for some satisfying partner play.
